Seeing Growth Is Not An Option, It Is Necessary
I found myself looking out the window and realized that it’s been a while since I have written anything about myself and that is probably because I know that I have fallen short in a few areas, but I have become accustomed to being perfectly imperfect. This is one of the reasons why I speak on faults that I see in myself to get my point across and then try to keep it moving so…
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You can either produce positive or negative self-talk…periodttttt. That negative self-talk will tear you down, make you feel less than human. Why would you want to sit around and talk sh*t to yourself? Honestly, when I am talking to myself in a negative tone, it feels like bullying. I wouldn’t let anyone else talk to me like that so why do I tolerate it from myself? It is a challenge but I take it one…
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“No one should be purchasing steaks today when there is only enough money to eat peanut butter for the entire week.” Many of us use excuses such as love, appreciation, and concern as reasons to do what we really can not or should not be doing. The temporary feelings that we get when we do these things soon fade when reality sets in and we realize that we could not afford the things that we…
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We would be living in a world full of silence if children didn’t believe that the sounds coming from their mouths made sense and that they could communicate with others by using these sounds to get their point across. What’s even more amazing is that these same children believed that they could communicate even further by learning to understand the sounds that come from other children and adults. I’m glad we all believed enough in…
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Love I often seek to have known Love oh how I long to be loved by you Looking in all the wrong places Neither security nor satisfaction ever found Avoid I’ve often seemed leveled to the ground As I looked into the mirror Began to believe in the inner woman God destined me to become. I see the reflection looking back at me Reality of the beauty I see That I feel deep within Why…
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Reflexes are not always physical, they could be verbal, emotional, or mental. We’ve all had times that we had to ask the questions “Where did that come from?” and “How did we get to this point?” Some of the time it is because of when we automatically respond to things by using our natural reflexes. Reflexes can be a good thing in some cases but they can also cause us to become angry, upset, disappointed,…
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Often, if you do good, people will think you are selfish and have ulterior motives. DO GOOD ANYWAY!!! I’m sure that we can all relate to these types of things in our daily lives, but sometimes other people seem to be our greatest obstacles. We all face situations where we take the proper steps and do everything for the right reasons, but we run into issues with people. Sometimes these are the people who are…
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It is true! I do, even more so since the pandemic. One thing that I have learned in all this chatter is that the way that I talk to myself is actually the way I see myself. When I really paid attention to what I was saying to myself, I saw what I was doing to my confidence. We can either build our confidence or completely break ourselves down with how we speak to ourselves….
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Nothing in life comes without some form of problem or obstacle. No one really enjoys facing problems, but problems will remain just what they are until we decide to face them directly. We can try to avoid our issues, but amazing thing is that it will still be an issue until we face our problems. We can try to run from our issues, but the issue will always catch up with us until we face…
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We all want the best that life has to offer and we have the opportunity to get just that when we give life the best that we have to offer. We can sit around dreaming of the things that we desire, the things that we could do to obtain them, and what we would do if we obtained them. We might just be able to see some progress in the dream that we are having…
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